We live rurally but are incredibly blessed to have bought the little farm I grew up on. I had a head start on knowing the longtime residents. For those I don’t/didn’t know we set off on a goodwill tour as soon as the hens started laying. Coming by with fresh eggs gave us a positive introduction and usually a jar of homemade jam (or something equally yummy) in exchange.
If you can, try hard to get to know your neighbors. You’ll be surprised how many other preparedness-minded folks are close by. All it takes are a few favors and a few chats leaning up against someone’s truck and you’ll have a lifelong ally.