Not blowing off Farm Girls question, cause its a great one.Just adding my answer to this exercise.
Family members. Not much help, as they will be baby-sitting another family member who will have a complete meltdown. So they are out
Neighbors. One family very trustworthy.Proficient and knowledgeable with firearms and are handy. Good BS skills when it comes to people. Negative. Doesnt handle stress very well. Another family. Firearms proficiency, cool headed, knows something about natural medicine, but not much. Negative, not many other skills besides that.
Skills missing…um just about everything.
What can be done for prevention of the stressful member who will probably scream and shout and have an anger fit. Have a plan in place, rehearse the rational for the plan. Have recreational items handy -music, books to distract and calm the person down.