Praying for you Muffy…kidney infections are hard to shake. I understand why you don’t want to move.
My Father had a hip replacement two weeks ago. While we got my folks stocked up with food and provided my Mother, who has dementia, transportation to places she needed to go, we didn’t anticipate her complete inability to help care for my Dad. Fortunately, we were able to get some 24×7 care during weekdays since we all work full time and then some. It’s been a 2 week crisis, but I think we’ve turned the corner.