PS…I’m a heavy user of on-line shopping for many years. I’ve never used a debit card for the reasons you all are noting. No one can get to my money in the bank account. A credit card can be stopped at the point of origin without impacting your actual funds. Sure am sorry you’re having this problem.
I’m not Catholic but I love St. John Chrysostom’s sermons/writings. Down South we just say “if it don’t kill ya’, it will just make you stronger.” Keep up the faith through this tough valley. I suspect many will be praying for you and your daughter on this forum. 🙂