O.M.G!
Do NOT get into the whole make, model, caliber debate.
If a given make, model or caliber does not fit you, IGNORE the internet forums trolls!!!!
There are makes, models and calibers that may or may not fit you.
You may not like a given caliber, in a given make firearm, vs what some internet yahoo says.
Find a trusted friend in firearms, or NRA instructor, try a myriad of firearms, and see what fit you best!