Read a report a year or so ago, where a study claimed the human mind was not develop into adulthood until the mid-to-latter 20s.
Naturally some yahoo tried to make the claim they should not be expected to be an adult until 30.
The operative word for those “children” who want to rotate back into the household is ‘NO!” I had to do it with my oldest. I told him, “I raised you once, I’m not raising you a second time”. He likely hates me for it. He apparently perfected the skill of living off of others. My others are doing great.
Yeah, from when I was about 12-13 years old, my parents made it clear, if you are not going to college, then the day after high school graduation, I was expected to move out and make my own way through life.
Now, if there was something truly bad happened, loss of a job, physical accident, fire, that kind of thing, I could move back in temporarily.
But, if possible, I would be expected to help around the house (chores, cook dinner, etc.) or get a PT job to pay for some things or save for my next whatever.